My Instagram reels addiction has ruined my ability to have a conversation. But can I get it back?

As a journalist, I’m endlessly curious about people – or I was until short-form video made real-life interactions feel like a drag

My Instagram reels addiction has ruined my ability to have a conversation. But can I get it back?

TL;DR

  • Increased consumption of short-form video content (e.g., Instagram Reels) has led to a decreased attention span and impatience in real-life conversations.
  • The author found themselves expecting conversations to provide speed and relevance, similar to the content they consumed online.
  • Studies suggest short-form video can weaken the ability to hold intentions after interruptions, crucial for maintaining conversations.
  • Experts recommend consciously slowing down, engaging curiosity about the person or topic, and retraining attention for the natural pace of life.
  • Strategies to regain conversational focus include acknowledging the practice, slowing down, and deliberately deleting social media apps on days off.