The moment I knew: I’d never had romantic feelings for a man

As a widower and a newly single father of three, Jim Rogers was struggling. Then on a poolside holiday, he sat next to Tyler – and his life changed

The moment I knew: I’d never had romantic feelings for a man

TL;DR

  • Jim Rogers, a widower and father of three, met Tyler on a holiday in the Canary Islands after the death of his wife.
  • Their friendship developed into a romantic relationship, causing Rogers to question his sexuality but also bringing him happiness.
  • They faced challenges with acceptance in their conservative village but eventually moved in together.
  • The couple later moved to Australia, where Rogers was diagnosed with early-onset dementia at age 55.
  • Tyler's positive attitude has been instrumental in helping Rogers cope with his diagnosis.
  • Rogers and Tyler are celebrating 25 years together and travel the world.