This is how we do it: ‘As a Catholic monk, I was celibate. But sex with Orla feels so natural’
Rory left the monastery after feeling lonely; with Orla, herself a Catholic, he’s been making up for lost time
TL;DR
- Orla and Rory are a Catholic couple who are both openly bisexual.
- Rory was celibate for three years while training to be a monk.
- Orla previously struggled with using sex to gain affection and focused on her partner's pleasure.
- With Rory, Orla feels safe and can lose herself during sex, orgasming from oral sex for the first time.
- Rory finds their sexual relationship to be a physical expression of their love, though he worries it might be too 'vanilla'.
- They sometimes worry about being judged at mass for having premarital sex.
- Rory's past as a monk and Orla's struggle to find someone understanding of both sides of her made their connection feel more meaningful.